Everyone experiences a dip in self-esteem from time to time, but this shouldn’t be the case on your wedding day. If you’re feeling nervous about being in front of a camera, or you simply aren’t feeling your best in general, the following tips will have you looking and feeling confident on your big day.
- Wear what makes you feel good. When you look better, feeling better always follows. Choose a dress that fits you well and that makes you feel beautiful. There is no need to go with the latest wedding dress styles, go with what you love. And if you know you’re going to feel uncomfortable in heels, don’t wear them. The discomfort will show through in your photos.
- Act and speak the part. The way you speak and act has an instant effect on your confidence. In the weeks leading up to your wedding, make a point of acting and speaking with more confidence. It might take some practice at first, but once you get into it, confidence will flow naturally. It also helps to remind yourself about all the positive aspects associated with your wedding.
- Be prepared. While you cannot prepare for every eventuality, it helps to think of some of the main things that could go wrong on your wedding day. Perhaps you need to reattach a clip or button, or you’re worried about body odor. Whatever is making you the most stressed, find a way to feel more prepared to feel more confident.
- Work with the right photographer. Working with the right photographer can really put your mind at ease. When you love a photographer’s style and can connect with them, it can change your experience in front of the camera entirely. Raise any concerns you might have with your photographer so that they’re aware of them and can help you work through them.
Remember, you are not the first bride to feel worried and a little low on self-esteem, and you won’t be the last. This is still going to be one of the best days of your life.